If you look at where you are in life right now, you’ll note
that you didn’t get here without help. Whether you think
you’re moving upward or sliding downhill – you’ve got
someone helping you out.
In Hollywood, we only need observe obvious cases in
the media, like Britney Spears, to make a case for the
negative or the positive. I just went through a magazine
where Britney Spears was on the cover – depicting
whether she is suicidal or not.
Unlike so many, I take no delight in reading about the
rough time she’s having. It’s obvious she’s being influenced
by people who don’t have her best intentions at heart.
Ultimately she is responsible for what she does or doesn’t
do – but there’s no denying others played a role in her
rise and her fall – and if she is to rise again, others will be
involved in helping her.
All of the above leads to an important point about how
we succeed or how we fail. We don’t do it alone – or in a
vaccuum. We absolutely do need others involved in the
process of shaping us into successful people.
If you’ll recall the Rocky movie with Mr. T. – who played
the role of Clubber Lang – he had a line that was
unforgettable. “I live alone, I train alone and I’m going
to win the title alone.”
Unwiser words were never spoken.
To rise up you must get advised up.
No champion fighter enters the ring alone, trains alone or
wins the title alone. No presidential candidate would dare
run without advisors and a TEAM.
And no truly successful people ever stop listening or learning
from others. Ultimately, after hearing advice – YOU have to
make the decision and accept the consequences. You’ll have
to agree or disagree with what you hear – but to completely
tune out advice is a mistake.
In 1988, while listening to a series of Brian Tracy audios – he
said that you could read posiitve books, attend seminars, listen
to videos and audios – but if you do just ONE thing wrong, this
alone will derail all your efforts for the positive.
And this one thing was … “associating with negative people.”
What this means requires you to take a serious look at who
you are spending time with. I have a very simple rule I live
by. It goes like this …
“If you’re interested in MORE Success – then we can spend time
together. If you’re interested in blaming others, staying stuck,
whining, complaining and so on, then we will not hang out
together.”
Simple as that.
Now, why do you think I have this rule. I have it because I
have witnessed what happens to me when I am around
successful people. I get charged up. I get excited. And I
succeed even more than before. But if I hang out with
people who act and think like losers – then I start going
downhill.
Keep this in mind today. Make a list of all your friends and
associates. Then ask yourself a simple question: Am I
getting positive, success-oriented, abundance-driven
energy from this person, or am I bombarded with negative,
poor-me, life is woe energy.
If the person ranks on the positive, then keep associating with
him or her; if not, then ask for guidance in finding someone
else who is better for you.
Now, in the rare event that your current associate wants to grow
with you – then by all means continue the relationship. If not, then
look at opening the door to a life of abundance, a life where you
have a LOT of everything. A Lot of opportunity; a lot of contacts
and friends; a lot of capital – and so on.
Live life straight-up, with gusto and enthusiasm and you’ll be delighted
at how life’s rewards begin showing up with great regularity.
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The following is a message sent last week about my success
coaching program. We still have a few spots left, so if this
opportunity looks and feels like YOU – then jump on it.
– M.F.
In January I started coaching people in the truly secret
powers of Psycho-Cybernetics – and the first session was
so powerful people have not come down from it yet. It
truly was a life-changer.
Normally, those who attend seminars or coaching programs
come home from it high as a kite – but then, over the course
of two or three days, all the positive gradually slips away.
Not with this program. The positive vibe sticks – like glue –
and continues to accumulate more just like the way a
magnet draws bits of iron.
At present I am expanding this coaching program by allowing
18 more people to come aboard.
If what you’re reading here sounds like something you might
be interested in, then I suggest you high-tail it to the following
page – http://www.psycho-cybernetics.com/fearless_success.html
and see how this program will work for you.
Best,
Matthew Furey
P.S. There’s a reason why the good get great. And that reason has
more to do with their minds than anything else. It’s not talent, or
smarts, or who you know. It’s who you are inside your own brain.
Successful people get this and want more of it. Those on the road to
failure don’t get it – and that is why they continue to fail. Make a choice
which road you want to travel on. Make a choice to launch yourself like
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