A Personal Message from
Matthew Furey
How to Turn a Crisis into an Opportunity
Last week a member of the
Matt Furey Inner Circle put up the following on our private "member's only" discussion board. It's so powerful I've decided to send to you – followed by my comments:
Subject: Thank you, Matthew
Message: I am writing this because I feel my story needs to be told. I started using
Psycho-Cybernetics late last year. In that time, my wife decided she wanted a divorce, took my children, and I felt terrible for a while.
Bad, huh? But that is not where it ends.
Now, I realize that those failures needed to happen to spur me on to greater things. My marriage was growing increasingly stale as I sought self-improve- ment and my wife was content in her misery. My servo-mechanism, I believe, led us to go our separate ways. Now, my finances are getting back on track and my career is taking off like a rocket.
I have gone to Soldier Boards and was named January's Soldier of the Month for my unit, 2nd Quarter Soldier of the Quarter for the Battalion, and now I've been named the Brigade's Soldier of the Quarter and I am in the running for Soldier of the Year. I would like to credit you and Dr. Maltz for your help in getting me on the right track. I realize that even though I went through my ordeals alone, I had plenty of help.
Thank you, Matthew Furey, and may God bless you.
Sincerely,
A.M.
M.F.: Thank you, A.M. More important though, congratulations on seeing reality for what it is. When you're in success mode – you interpret the so- called negatives as leading you toward your goals. The setbacks are not setbacks at all – but rather new launching pads. The temporary situation may hurt, it may sting – but it is all for the best.
I have two people in my Fearless Success Coaching Program
who have experenced or gone through very similar circumstances and BOTH will tell you they are all the better for it. In relationships, it is tough when one person wants to grow and the other wants to cling.
Grab a hand full of water sometime. Then squeeze your hand tight and see how much is left. This is an important metaphor to remember about most anything.
Glad to see you transcending this situation and making a choice to be bigger than any pain you've endured.
Rise Up!
Matthew Furey
Zen Master of the Internet®
P.S. Go to the Fearless Success Coaching program
. I have room for a few more students before we're totally full. So if you want in, jump on this NOW!
Power Quote of The Day
"When written in Chinese the word 'crisis' is composed of two characters – one represents danger and the other represents opportunity."
–John F. Kennedy 35th President of the United States
|