Last weekend was POWERFUL. On Friday and Saturday I met with my Gold MasterMind group – and Sunday info-tained my Psycho-Cybernetics Fearless Success Group. The breakthroughs that I and the others in the room witnessed were remarkable indeed.
For example, Bob and Makiho, of Tokyo, Japan, came to the meeting with their first product finished. This is their very first entrepreneurial venture – and In 10 days time they put together a package that I believe will sell like hot cakes all over the world. They wasted no time. They focused on what they wanted – a viable and prosperous online business, and they’ll have it. I will let you know more about their product when they have their website up and going. In the interim, the key moral of the story is “speed.”
When you have an idea, don’t sit around pondering it forever. Get it done and get it done fast.
If you’re writing a book, no doubt it takes a bit more time than if you’re recording a DVD or set of CDs because you need to edit. But another info-product is different – unless you insist on being scripted – something I am not in favor of for myself and most others.
The Psycho-Cybernetics program represents the place where I help people discover that they have the POWER to launch themselves to whatever they want in life. I began the day by telling the group that they were going to experience some major breakthroughs during the day – and breakthroughs they received.
I’ll show you two of the many, many comments sent to me afterward, but first, I want to direct your attention to another matter – and that is the grieving/mourning process so many go through when a loved one dies.
Last night I was forwarded an email from Paul, a Gold MasterMind member who could not attend the meeting as his mother passed away. Five days later he was still in a lot of pain and wrote me the following note (to be followed by my reply – both of which he gave me permission to use in the service of others):
Matthew,
My mom’s passing is hard for me.
I am not letting it stop me. I am following what you say and continue to daily visualize my goals. I do my breathing, I keep on moving.
I am refusing to tell myself the story that I have to be depressed or immobile (although that is the common story that society tells people).
But this pain is real.
You are one of the very, very few people I look up to and turn to for inspiration and reality-checks and stuff that works.
Do you have any advice at all on this? Would you even find it appropriate to use any of what you teach to assist in mourning a parent, dealing with this kind of loss?
I don’t even know if it would be respectful to my Mom to do so.
You are free to use any or all of this communication in your newsletters or emails if you think it would be of help to people.
If the subject is not appropriate, I apologize.
I am grasping for help wherever I can find it. If anyone could help with something PRACTICAl I think it would be you.
Paul
Paul,
I just rec’d your note from Carol. I know your love for your mother is great.
Key word “IS.”
She is still with you. Take time each day to talk to her. Tell her how much you love her – THANK her for everything valuable she taught you. There will be an instantaneous connection. You have lost nothing. Your mother is no longer in her body – but she is with you in memory and in spirit.
You can now celebrate the freedom you have to communicate with her. She’s trying to reach you now. Your genuine asking is a sign that you’re ready to rise above this and see her as always present rather than gone.
I am not recommending a seance or some other thing. This is genuine contact with your mother – by yourself – in privacy. Picture her in your mind and begin talking to her. Talk as long as you’d like – each day.
For the depression – inhale white into your lungs. Exhale black, cloudy negative energy. Picture a tiger a few feet in front of you as you inhale white. Keep in mind as you exhale dark. Inhale white and say internally “courage, confidence.” On the exhale of dark energy say internally “grief, sadness, depression.”
Do 6 breaths of this – and you will be clear. Then talk to your mom.
Do this everyday – for life if you so choose.
Let me know how this goes for you. I am in your corner.
Matthew
What I have described above is something I have recommended to several others, and in each and every case, these people thank me profusely. Never think, “Oh, I didn’t tell my mother or father enough about my love and appreciation for them before they died. It is NEVER too late. Spend time with them in the Theatre of The Mind and you cannot go wrong.
Now, onto a some feedback sent in by a husband and wife team. Let’s start with the woman.
Hi Matthew,
Firstly, I want you to know that your immense influence on my life is greater than any person, EVER. Your power to light the fire in my heart, and I mean the fire that conquers all perceived fears, is the gift of a lifetime.
Thank you.
Tania
And hear is what Tania’s husband Clayton wrote:
Dear Matthew,
Well, you did it again. Raised the bar for yourself and brought the rest of us up with you.
The ‘breakthrough’ you felt I would have at these meetings was beyond anything I could of imagined – no exaggeration.
On Sunday, while you were talking about the ‘big self’ I had an idea for a little walking meditation/visualization of my own. I did it today and found it to be every bit as wonderful as I expected.
BTW, the little healing you gave me was an experience I will never forget. Indeed it is impossible to put into words the value of such a thing.
May it be so.
Clayton Haslop
P.S. I also find the other human beings gathered around you to be extraordinary. I am blessed to be counted among them.
Well, my friend, I’ve got to start getting ready for my email seminar next weekend. Right now I have one more spot available. Seize it NOW – if you want it.
Rise Up!!!
Matthew Furey
Zen Master of the Internet®
P.S. Many of you have been asking about my October seminar. When will I have information for you? The answer is: I’ll tell you all about it in June. And when I do, be prepared to enroll immediately as this one is HOT.